While reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius one thing particularly stuck with me
The concept of ones happy place
The idea is when you are feeling low, unfocused on your goals, unsure of the course that life is going to take you need to imagine yourself in your happy place
While reading that I just thought what is my happy place ?
Generally one would say childhood home, a place that holds a special memory with a loved one or even just a place you saw once and felt at peace in its presence.
Except I realized I dont have that I could not even get close to an answer and it made me feel sad, made me feel empty, made me think to myself “How can someone exist for so long, in so many places, and yet remain ‘placeless’?”
No place that I have visited or lived in made me feel the way that it was described. And I have lived in a lot of places more than I count on my hands.
That was 3 years ago and I still do not have a definite an answer though I am getting closer to it
I realize now that Marcus Aurelius believed the “quiet retreat” wasn’t a physical location at all, but something found within the soul. I think this is the key to our question.
A happy place is not just a postcard memory; it is somewhere where something about you changed. It is a place that helped mold your current self—the self that will later develop into your future self.
It is okay to not have a physical “happy place” yet. But if you are lucky enough to have one, please think about it. Think about how it changed you. Think about the whys and the hows.
That will bring you closer to your answer
In the hopes that you’ll come back,
May we meet again.